Surprising and Powerful Insights: What I Learned in 2024

This year has been a season of growth, joy, and challenges in both motherhood and entrepreneurship. As I look back on what I learned in 2024, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for the moments that shaped my journey—from welcoming our sweet Luca into the world to finally starting my own business.

Surprising and Powerful Insights: What I Learned in 2024

Lessons from Motherhood

Luca’s arrival was nothing short of an adventure. His birth was a whirlwind—I had a precipitous labor and unmedicated VBAC, which was both surreal and empowering. Watching Ella step into her role as a big sister has been one of the most heartwarming experiences of my life. She’s grown so much this year—starting toddler school, dancing her heart out in ballet class, and talking up a storm. It’s incredible to see her personality blossom.

The best part of this year has been watching Ella and Luca grow closer. Ella loves playing with her little brother (most of the time!), and Luca is always eager to be part of her world. Seeing their sibling bond deepen has been pure magic. It’s a reminder of just how beautiful the chaos of parenthood can be.

Of course, motherhood isn’t without its challenges. Like many moms, I’ve struggled with guilt—worrying that I’m not doing enough for my kids. While I’m still learning to manage those feelings, I’ve found that pausing to focus on gratitude helps. Journaling, meditating, or simply talking to my husband often helps me shift my mindset. And when the guilt feels overwhelming, I remind myself that the very act of worrying about being enough is proof that I already am.

Lessons from Starting a Business

This year, I also fulfilled a lifelong dream of starting my own business—a decision born out of back-to-back hardships and the ideas that came to me as a mom. The learning curve has been steep, but I’m proud to say I’ve taken the first steps and even made money! That first bit of revenue felt like breaking through the hardest barrier.

If there’s one lesson I’ve embraced, it’s this: done is better than perfect. Letting go of perfectionism has helped me take consistent action, even when life feels unpredictable. This mindset has been a game-changer in building momentum and making progress.

That said, balancing work and personal life is still a challenge. There were moments this year when I got so focused on business tasks that I almost forgot to pay bills on time (oops!). Taking what I learned in 2024, I plan to grow and improve in 2025. By batching my time and setting aside one or two days each month for “life admin,” I’ll stay more proactive and create a healthier balance between work and home life.

Key Takeaways

• For Moms Feeling Guilty: You are enough. When guilt creeps in, focus on what fills your cup—a hot cup of coffee, a hug from your kids, or even a well-deserved massage. When you care for yourself, you can show up for your family even better.
• For Entrepreneurs Starting Out: Just start. Even if your ideas aren’t perfect, get them out into the world. You can refine them later, but action creates progress.
• For Managing the Juggle: Create systems that work for you. Whether it’s batching tasks, setting boundaries, or carving out time for personal priorities, find what fits your life and stick with it.

As I look ahead to 2025, I’m excited to keep learning, growing, and giving myself grace along the way. What’s one thing you learned in 2024? I’d love to hear about it—let’s reflect and celebrate together!